So I’ve got a dentist appointment in a couple of weeks. I tend to use the same approach with my dentist appointments as I did with my college courses when I was in school. I start off with my syllabus outlining all the things I need to read, study, and learn at various points during the term, and I tell myself I will keep up with all the materials–read the suggested reading each week, start my research paper weeks before it’s due, make up my study flash cards along the way and start going over them before the night before the test. I honestly have the very best intentions.
But I’m a crammer, you see. I’m convinced I was just born that way. So inevitably I find myself the night before my dentist appointment brushing, flossing, gargling, swishing, rinsing and repeating like a madwoman. And still somehow my hygienist knows that I’m not a regular flosser. Is she clairvoyant? Are my raw, bleeding gums really that much of a giveaway?
Actually, I’m a crammer and a liar because when they ask if I’m a flosser, I always say yes, but then I try to buffer it a bit with something like “Well, I could do a lot better–I’m not like religious about it.” See, I’m more of an Easter/Christmas mass attender than the weekly Sabbath Day observer. And by that, I mean I floss when I think there’s something stuck in my teeth or when I have a dentist appointment. (I wonder how many “Hail Marys” you have to say to be absolved of gingivitis. Or is it “Hell Mary”? I don’t know–I’m not Catholic.)
But hey, I’ve got two weeks, so if I start flossing today then when my dentist appointment rolls around I’ll have these beautiful pink, but not too pink, plump, but not swollen, healthy-looking gums and I’ll be able to honestly say I’m a bonafide daily flosser because if it only takes two weeks to form a habit that could be considered an accurate description, eh?
I know the world is chock full o’ people who don’t enjoy the dentist, and I find myself firmly rooted (ha!–see what I did there? root? tooth? dentist?) in this camp. I blame the first dentist I had (that I can remember at least). His name was Dr. Milton Daniels (and no, I have not changed his name to protect the innocent guilty–that’s his actual name, at least I think it is unless I’m remembering it wrong). Anyway, he was a terrible dentist, and not in the usual “all dentists suck because hey, they’re dentists and nobody likes dentists” kind of way, but in an “I have actual, undisputable proof of his sucktitude” kind of way.
My reasons are threefold:
1. He was gross. He spit when he talked, and this was before the day when dentists regularly wore masks. Or maybe dentists have always worn masks and he just blatantly disregarded this practice, in which case that just strengthens my case.
2. He was rude. He often told me how terrible my teeth looked. Mind you, I am the first to admit that my teeth are not the ideal pearly whites everyone dreams of–I have gap issues, but they’re not crooked or deranged. I have a very vivid memory of him saying to me, after suggesting an orthodontic consulation to my mother yet again, “You have a pretty face, but those teeth.”
3. He was insane. One time I went in for a routine filling, and instead of giving me a shot of novacaine, he stuck a clothespin on my ear. He said there was some new study out that suggested that pinching the ear dulled the nerve along the jaw or whatever, and that it should work just as well as the drugs. The hell it did. But I was only like 11 at the time and not terribly assertive, so I just sat there and suffered while images of Laurence Olivier from Marathon Man ran through my mind. It’s not safe! It’s not safe!
Well, I better go not floss now.
Do you have any dental horror stories to share?


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March 19, 2008 at 11:36 am
madhousewife
Oh, boy, I remember Milton. What a jerk.
I have a wonderful dentist now. All of my dentists in the last 10 years have been wonderful. Of course, I’ve only had three of them because I let the dental appointments slide for about six years or so. Actually, when I started with my current dentist and had to fill out the new-patient forms, there was the question, “Reason for visit?” and I wrote, “Because it’s been four and a half years since my last dental appt. and it’s about stinking time.” I may or may not have written “stinking.” I like to be a little less-formal on these forms, but maybe not that less.
Milton pulled out my wisdom teeth. One. At. A. Time. Which is a perfectly fine way of removing wisdom teeth, under circumstances such as mine were. However, I remember the visit where he was removing the second or third tooth, and he gave me the novacaine shot and the usual “you’re-going-to-feel-some-pressure-now,” but apparently there was not enough novacaine in that shot because it really, really hurt–the tooth-pulling, I mean–and I put up with it for a while because I thought it would be over any second, but it kept just not being over, and moreover, it just got worse, until finally I just started screaming. (Literally–despite the hands and tools in my mouth.) And he said, “Now is that pain, or is it just pressure?”
“Pain! Pain!” I screamed (with hands and tools in my mouth).
So he (reluctantly) stopped what he was doing and gave me an extra shot. After that I felt nothing.
In retrospect I suppose I should count myself lucky that I even got the first shot.
I actually like to floss, but it’s a cyclical thing with me. I was having gum pain and my dentist said that stimulating my gums would help, which it did, but I just got addicted to that sensation of flossing and the rubber tip especially–it was psycho. I got over it, but every so often it flares up again, that itch to floss and stimulate the gums. Unfortunately it does not constitute a regular habit–more of a seasonal-type habit (only it doesn’t correspond with regular seasons, just vague, spontaneous flossing seasons). I know what you mean about the syllabus, though. Every time I come home from the dentist and my teeth feel so nice and clean, I swear I’m going to floss every day and have the world’s awesomest teeth, but it never comes to fruition. (Of course, when I got baptized I swore I’d never sin again, and that didn’t work out as planned, either. What are you gonna do?)
March 19, 2008 at 11:44 am
bythelbs
Well, that’s what the Hell Marys are for, right?
I also love how they try to make you feel all guilty about it. Like the punishment of having all your teeth fall out is far worse than any tongue-lashing the dentist could give you. Yeah, right. *snort*
March 19, 2008 at 3:06 pm
cheryl
Hell Mary’s… Ha!
I actually like the dentist. Now, before you throw me out of your blogging life forever, let me say why:
I have glorious teeth, although I do exactly what you describe, i.e. last-minute flossitude. I’ve only had 6 cavities in my life. I did have braces twice, but it wasn’t too bad. Plus, I had the greatest dentist alive throughout all of childhood/teen years. So, yes. Blame your old dentist. He’s the reason you hate the dentist and you can blame him forever.
Oh, I also worked in a dental office. That made me appreciate all things dental very, very much.
Call me weird. It’s okay. I am.
March 19, 2008 at 7:29 pm
Jamie J
This was a hilarious post! I am religious flosser like you–about Easter and Christmas. I just cannot get into the habit! I do not love the dentist per se but I don’t hate it. I have not had too many bad experiences except the occasional painful cleaning. I do remember the first time I got a root canal–yes the first time, I have two–and I just cried! I was so scared of that phrase that I didn’t know what to do. I was about 19 and having some really bad throbbing pain in my tooth anyway (I fell on it when i was like 5 and it rotted and died so it’s not like I didn’t take care of it). After I left that office I was in LOVE with my dentist because he made the pain go away! Speaking of dentists I think it’s about time I visited mine again…
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